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Moral dilemma girl friend and things, sex?
Hey, So me and my gf have been dating for awhile, and I am having some serious moral dilemmas. She slept with 9 guys including me, and I have just slept with her. Shes only a year older, and weve been sharing past experiences and its just becoming hard for to understand exactly what sex means for girls. Her first time, she was raped, so in order to get over that she slept with another guy, and so forth. It sounds like she s slept with all the guys she remotely liked in the past. And then some of them she didnt even like. I havent sex before her because its has a little more meaning in my opinion. Shes italian and grew up in an "american" house hold, wheres I am "indian", and grew up with customs in which girls dont have much free dom to do that stuff. Plus sex is against my Religion before marriage. I mean I love her, and we are happy together but it still bothers me, but on the same token now adays girls have sex all the time, so it isnt even like my gf is any different, other girls are in same situation where they have sex with multiple guys and even sometimes with guys they havnt cared for. All of these happened with her, before we became intimate and close so I dont feel like I should have hard feelings but it still does bother me. Any thoughts are appreciated.
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- I went through the same situation except im a girl and sex before marrige is againts my religion.. im half arab.. I had sex with this guy and I thought it would work out and stuff but we broke up so now i feel bad about it. But all you could do is just forget her past and look on to a better future. Like dont let that get to you. I would never sleep with that much guys but I know how you feel especially my ex who I lost it to oh my god he slept with so many girls and he cheated on me. I was with him for years. Just do your best to be positive.
