Why Italy
Do you think is it love or bullshit?
Hello. My friend married this italian man she met online. She was a very poor girl so he came to meet her very fast and took her to Italy and they got married. Soon after that, he confessed her he came to my country to meet other woman he met online, but then, he picked her! Nowadays they have 2 years of marriage and my friend says he has given her a different life of luxuries in Italy and she is satisfied...but yesterday she told me, they travelled together and he told her to go to a different hotel (and she actually slept in another hotel) she says she has found him giving himself a handjob in the bathroom (when she was ready for sex) and he lets her go out with as many man as she wants (even when they are really hot he NEVER gets jealous) is this trust? or just a very european-like way to think...or he doesnt love her? I am worried about my friend cause I don't feel like he was very nice and she says that she is getting used to this even when here in my country I dont think is so normal. What should I do as a friend? Thank you :)
Public Comments
- Tell her to leave him.. I'm mean..come on..what guy lets their gf go out with other guyss? Since he does that I guess it's because he's doing the same..Yeah..I think he's cheating or he's either not that into her anymore &+ maybe he's trying to push her away..by that. The best thing she can do is leave him before he hurts her. Hope I helped, bye.
- There is nothing you can do. You have to let your friend make her own mistakes. Just be the supportive friend you have been because if or when experience teaches her a hard lesson, she is gonna need your friendship to get her through her ordeal. I commend you on being there for her, good for you.
- you need to talk to her and let her know that you know it's none of your business, but she is your friend and that you don't want her to end up getting hurt. It sounds like either he's gay, doesn't love her or has someone on the side. If he doesn't get jealous if she goes out with other men or doesn't want to have sex with her- there is a problem. That is not NORMAL. If he came here to pick one of several, that should have been her first sign of NO LOVE. Let her know that there is NO TREASURE IN THIS WORLD WORTH IT IF SHE IS NOT HAPPY AND THERE IS NO LOVE.
