thanks for all your great answers. I was also wondering about another 2 things. 1: family are coming too, how do we sort out about paying for it, as surely the travel company will just put it all on one invoice and the family will have to square it later but we cant afford that, and 2: Is it a nightmare all the paperwork that has to be sorted out to go to these places, I've been reading the back of the first choice brochure and it seems to go on forever about what you need to take. I was thinking either Greece or Italy. Is it difficult to sort all the paperwork out, and can everyone get married there, even if one of us is not christened. I read that in Greece an anglican priest marries you and one of you has to be christened and give the name and address of your priest to them.