I have a great black girlfriend and I love her.I have lived in a black community since I was born.My mother took me out of public schools because I expressed to her that I was attracted to black woman at a early age.I am from a strict family that both parents were born in Sicily Italy.My father has dated black woman be for but my mother is racist.I am there only child and I have just graduated from school.Now that I have my degree I got a good job and I am planning on cutting my mom out of my life, is that wrong?That’s all she talks about is me,however she has some mental issues and tried to live through me.She talks to me vary badly if we disagree on anything.She hates the way I dress when I am out of work.She says that baggy jeans and t shirts are for blacks. I am sick of her running my life and as soon as I get my job I am thinking of cutting her out of my life.I feel that I love black woman so much that I will not be happy innless I’m with one.What should I do is this selfish?