Why Italy

why do white/italian guys treat my friend like she is white/italian and want her to dislike her race?

My friend is black she has never dated a black guy or even had a crush on one she has only dated/been with italian/sicilian/white guys.The white guys are glad she's never been with a black guy or a latino she even lost her you know what to a white guy they tell her she needs to stay with white men and it's okay if she doesn''t like black men which isn't at all the case and they like that she doesn't talk and act in their words"ghetto" she's a suburban girl when she started dating a italian her white guy friend told her to stick with white guys cause we're italians/sicilians are nothing but trouble and we're not white.She is with the italian guy he said he thinks it's okay if she doesn't date black guys or want to and hasn't been with one.He makes fun of latino guys when he finds out one hit on her and she said she thought this filipino guy was hot he had more racist comments then she said she wanted to adopt an african baby he said why would you want to do that what can she do? I meant instead of treating her like a woman they treat her like she is a italian/white women their trying to preserve from a black man when she is black it's almost like their trying to pull her away from her own race she is a human not a trophy or some mindless bimbo who shouldn't date her own race

Public Comments

1. First of all, you only have three periods on that whole paragraph. People will be more willing to read your questions if you write it correctly. Second of all, race shouldn't matter. It could be a preference thing - she isn't attracted to black men. It's alright. Just because she is black doesn't mean she has to be with a black man. Most of the time (I hope) relationships are more about the personality than the racial/physical beauty. She can date whoever she wants to.
2. He may be a selfish and a racist.
3. Wow, these guys are idiots! How old is your friend? Well, that doesn't really matter. She can date, marry, and even have babies with whomever she feels like it. Are these white guys, Italian guys, etc saving themselves for only white girls, Italian girls, etc.? I doubt it! They are just trying to control her. She should just ignore them or better yet smile and pretend to agree with them, then do what she wants to do!