Why Italy
Im a black women dating a italian man?
I have children that live with me and my boyfriend is a single father of 2 and we all love one another but his family is really trippin. I don't know what to say to my children about how they (his family) are acting and why. I don't want my children to be upset but they are asking a lot of questions on the behavior of his family. What do I say. They just don't want us to be together because of our race. Really what would I say so everything can be smooth but also telling the truth without anyone getting hurt.
Public Comments
- just talk to your boyfriend first then talk to the kids later
- follow your heart do what u think is right
- Just reassure your kids that color doesn't matter and whats on the inside is what really counts.
- Tell them the truth, that some people don't approve of races mixing. I don't know how you can keep it from hurting their feelings, but you know they are going to run into this their whole lives, so you may as well start teaching them about it now. Teach them to be patient with people who are fearful and closed minded. I mean you don't want to teach them any more hate! Best of luck and I hope it all works out!
- now i am a black man and on some cases i trip myself on black women dating white men but not in your case do you want to know why and his family knows this too but they never want to face it and the truth is your dating a descendant of a black man how is this you ask well let me tell you and check it out for yourself, back in Italy doing the roman time Rome was at war with a city in Africa called Cartridge which is present day Libya I'm sure you have heard of Hannibal well anyway the African army invaded Italy doing this time and after the war most of his army never went home they stayed and did what every invading army does (make baby's) and this is why Italians look differant from the rest of white people just like the Spanish after the moors invaded Spain so let them know that they are what they hate
- What you tell them depends on their age .... You can't tell the truth without someone getting hurt... I think that people in relationships are too obssessed with what the other family thinks ... me personally .. I don't give a fcuk. I am only really interested in the person I am in a relationship with (if its serious) If your bf does care more what his parents think ... then you shouldn't be with him ... he is a grown man... not a boy .. if he loves you ..then what his parents think does not matter. Dr bad
