Why Italy

why do white/italian guys treat my friend like she is white/italian and expect her not to deal with black men?

My friend is black she has never dated a black guy or even had a crush on one she has only dated/been with italian/sicilian/white guys.The white guys are glad she's never been with a black guy or a latino she even lost her you know what to a white guy they tell her she needs to stay with white men and it's okay if she doesn''t like black men which isn't at all the case and they like that she doesn't talk and act in their words"ghetto" she's a suburban girl when she started dating a italian her white guy friend told her to stick with white guys cause we're italians/sicilians are nothing but trouble and we're not white.She is with the italian guy he said he thinks it's okay if she doesn't date black guys or want to and hasn't been with one.He makes fun of latino guys when he finds out one hit on her and she said she thought this filipino guy was hot he had more racist comments then she said she wanted to adopt an african baby he said why would you want to do that what can she do? I meant instead of treating her like a woman they treat her like she is a italian/white women their trying to preserve from a black man when she is black it's almost like their trying to pull her away from her own race she is a human not a trophy or some mindless bimbo who shouldn't date her own race she is beautiful and everything but isn't it wrong for them to treat her like this she now is extremely attracted to nigerian/african men since akon came out she says if her and her boyfriend split she'd date one i find black men and latino men hot but never got to date one

Public Comments

1. a black girl who does not date black guys is downright self hating.
2. I think that white guy needs to be killed. Where is he?
3. First off they are not making her do anything she must be an adult and make her own decisions, if she doe s not like the situation her bf and friends put her in or things they say or believe then she needs to find new ones, and get out of that situation in her life I promise you sh would be alot happier if she did, life is too short to pretend to be someone your not.
4. interesting. They are a bit controlling.
5. That was a whole lot of nothing
6. I would first like to acknowledge my ethnicity, black. I think the guys that she is dating is racist. She's black and I think she should feel disrespected by their comments. It's not nice to talk down on people especial because of the color of their skin. I appreciate you stepping up and saying that there is nothing wrong with dating a black man. I for one love them, not saying that I wouldn't date a white man, but I wouldn't let him disrespect my race. I also think your friend shouldn't be so narrow minded about who she date especially when it comes to her own race no matter where she's from. Now if she doesn't wanna be black then too bad. When people see her they're gonna see a black girl who acts black. Not trying to often anybody but it's the truth. As for her little boyfriends every race can act ghetto, it's not a black thing cause I know white people who act ghetto too. Maybe they need to learn what ghetto is but don't look in the dictionary cause it's gonna tell its a location. If a black person heard the kind of stuff they be saying they would be thankin' God when they would talk again, and they would be eating through a straw. FYI: all black men don't do you wrong just like all white man don't do you good. Your friend and her boyfriends need to wake up. Harsh but True God Bless My e-mail is sofinemoss20022002@yahoo.com Please keep me posted on this because as you can see this kind of got me going.
7. Im nigerian and I have had three italian boyfriends so far. Ill let you know none of them treated me like you describe. I date only white men and I dont let any idiot try to control me, neither will I condone any bigotted comment from any of them. I go into relationships whole and I come out whole..... I dont let any guy walk over me and women who let that happen need to improve their self esteem.
8. race is ridiculous. there are so many things in this world to worry about. like cancer. or aids. or dying of something horrible. why do people waste their time worrying about the color of someone's skin??? it blows my mind
9. Okay you are really concerned. She made the choice to date non-black guys and that's perfectly fine but how are they treating her like she is white.? No one is making her date them she is dating them on her own will. Why would she adopt an African baby when she can have his baby?....Maybe that's what he meant! Duh!?