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Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days?

Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? These same women call me "awesome" but they're sleeping with other men. What's the deal here? Oh and anyone who has a problem with what I say can pull a LaDanian Tomlinson and piss and moan about it. IM me and we'll talk. We good?

Public Comments

1. it makes them feel good
2. It makes them feel good, loved and wanted
3. Women are tricky and let me tell you we like the hard to get. I know this sounds childish but i would advise you to go on your next date and be mysterious. That is if you aren't running to the bathroom and puking because of her awful vintage scent. But if you do like her you need to not be so "nice". Women like a challenge so make it one.
4. The women that are looking for men to treat them like possessions have self esteem problems. It's not you - it's them. Good Luck!
5. sorry, am bored,couldnt read ur question.
6. Women are just plain F*ucked up these days. They will choose to go out with the most F*ucked up guys, it's amazing and they just don't see it from a distance. Like a nice successful, supposedly well adjusted female will date and sometimes marry a gang banger, drug user, drunken idiot, and think she's really got herself a real man. The women these days are twisted. I can understand why some guy's in your position feel the way you do.
7. Well if you allowed IM I would def. IM you to talk to you, but not because I have a problem with you. I had the same problem you do, being a women instead. Honestly, we women do want kind men who are outgoing and sensitive, just we dont always end up like that. I personally dont think that we women enjoying being treated like personal property but in a sense we are. I love having the feelling of security. I treat him like personal property as well. It's a mutual thing. Not overdueing it but if a guy looks at me the wrong way my man will go off, not on me but he keeps and eye on that guy. If I see a girl hitting on or checking out my man, i reach up and kiss him so she gets a hint. Not because i don't trust him, but to make a statement. Your time will come.
8. Well, in my opinion, there's nothing better than a nice guy that's intelligent, random, and respectful. I don't like piercings or tattoos (while I know there are some nice people with them..it's just a turn-off for me.) don't become some asshole that you're not to try to get a woman that wouldn't like the real you, or a woman that can't realize how lucky they'd be to have a respectful man in their life. I'm sorry you're in an area dominated by shallow women, but somewhere there's an intelligent girl with a head on her shoulders waiting to find a man with similar traits.
9. You sound angry with your experiences,I am on the same boat with you,but I am not angry, anger is a waste of energy. I moved on.I hope this will ,make you feel better,I am stronger than my loneliness,I don't give a free ride and a free lunch, to these guys I've dated,for I got beauty and guts.I deserve better.I bet you got something in you too,that you deserve the best girl for you.Dating is a market for selections,of who is the best girl /boy,don't feel bad if it did not work out,move on.I bet you have a lot of buddies,compare notes w/ them,read books on how to be a great" ROMEO".Dating is a learning experience. Nothing ventured,nothing gain, Hey! young man,show that drop dead gorgeous smile to all the girls out there.........