I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years. Problem is that for the past year and 3 months it has been long distance. Before he left, we were together 4 months and i'd see him basically everyday. We said i love you. It's been difficult since he's been gone. The first time he was gone 3 months, then he came home and his family/friends seemed to come first over me. He left without saying bye to me. He called saying I love you, i'm sorry for how i treated you when i was home, please forgive me. We kept in touch, not everyday, and i admit i saw other people. He came home in december, did the same thing to me,then he got back to where he was, called me saying how sorry he was, loves me, wants to be with me forever. i'm going to visit him in italy in about 2 weeks,i still feel like he doesnt make enough time for me,yet i feel head over heels for him,think about him ALL the time! He keeps saying he loves me,how do i know what to believe? Is he for real...or just wants to keep me around?