Why Italy - Dating Italian Men Knowledge Base

Dating Italian Men Knowledge Base

Why people Lie about Italian & Germans men about dating black women? I have seen past questions on here about Italian men dating black women but They are all lies bc Italian men mostly stick within there race, French men really don't like black women ethier or German so why are these people are lying about Italians, French and German men dating Black women.

Interracial dating: Do Italian women date Black men? I have heard the rumor that italians especially Sicilians are racist towards Blacks in dating. Although, whenever I view the personals, I always see Italain women looking for Black men. Therefore if you are Italian can you recall if your parents told you to avoid dating Blacks? Thanks

whats up with most of these italian men dating black women? especially jamaican women!

how are Italian men. lovers, dating, husbands? how are there personality? i met one today and he has a way with words and hes very sensual. hes so demanding

Is this true that Italian men really like Black women? I here people say that Italian men in diffrent area like black women is that true? I should move to a diffrent city/state thats has more interracial couples. I won't me a Italian, Greek, Latino and White men but It's ani't that many interracial couples here in Knoxville, Tn. Yeah we have these other race/ethnic groups here but When they date outside there race they go for white women. One day I was at the mall on a saturday all I saw was these Ethnic men dating white women an one had a kid an I only saw one asian dude with a black woman they had an kid. Is this true that Italian men date black women also maybe I need to move!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I not looking at men bc of his race.......

Why are people suddenly so obsessed with the idea of an Italian man dating a black woman? I have been browsing around and have noticed that more and more people as about Italian men dating black women. I find this really funny because I thought for so long I was the only one who considered this question. I have had some pretty serious relationships with some Italian guys and have never been disappointed, even though they did end. So why the sudden interest? Is it because of people like Robert De Niro who seems to exclusively date and marry black women? Or, is it because more and more black girls are falling in love with what I consider the SEXIST men alive? It's funny because so many of them do like black girls but then they really love all women. So, again what's going on?

Do Black, White, Jewish, and Italian top men to they join dating clubs or do they really have to? i find that bottoms and switch hitters do. No silly answer please

Why Italian men like black women more then the white American men? I have notice that Italian men likes black women more then the white men. Why is that? I'm a light skin black female an Should I date a Italian man? Bc white men not really into black women, the italian men are.

Is it true that Sicilian men/italian men only date Sicilian/italian girls?!? I heard that they only dated them. Also, is it true that italian men have bad tempers and are mean!? i wasnt accusing gender or nationality at all, i just heard this from someone, so that is why i am asking. duh!

Am I being racist because I only prefer to date Italian men?

I prefer to date italian/white men and not black men is that wrong? I'm a Black chick i am more attracted to and prefer to date italian/white men and not black men is that wrong?my sister says it's cause i dont like black men i just havent met any im attracted to i have never dated a black,hispanic,asian guy in my life and it didn't bother me till my sisters made feel like i was obligated to date a black guy.Some o fmy friends say it wouldnt be so bad if it was hispanic guys instead of white/italian ones.My current boyfriend is Italian he doesnt see anything wrong with it.Is something wong with me?

my friend is black but prefers to date white/italian men does this make her a sellout? a few of my friends say yes cause it isnt normal.But for the most part they think it is okay i can see where she is coming from though cause it seems white/italian men are more attracted to her then the black guys arund here are she has never dated a black guy and the white/italian guys say she shouldnt she has dated some guys i think are racist 1 italian guy couldnt stand black men but was with her i think everyone can have their preference she says she feels bad now cause she is 21 and never even had a crush on a black guy and thinks she has issues i say she is not a sell out and doesnt have to be with a black guy because she is black by the way the guy she is dating this jealous possesive italian guy who is 8 years older than her and i am italian by the way

Dating an Italian man..........need help!!!? My boyfriend is Italian and his family is from up north..He's very close to his mom, which Italian men are known to be. He does things that aggragvate me, though, like tap into my e-mails and look through everything in my cell phone etc..he has to know EVERYTHING. But when the tables turn, he'll get a phone call or see one of his friends, and say "can you go in the other room and wait for me, this is important.." or he'll walk away when he gets a certain phone call and get furious if I follow him. His excuse is that I can't handle certain things!! Once, I wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine and had my friend call me..I did the same; went up stairs and used his lines "this doesn't concern you..sorry, I have to take this..wait here"....he was LIVID..he kicked things , he stormed after me, turned red..went nuts about it..his mom tried to stop him and he pushed her out of his way and caused a big commotion in his house. Is this double standard typical of Italian-American men? thanks for all the input..I have thought of leaving him, but i'm so afraid i'll miss him too much, so I decided that I would hold on until I find another guy, but it seems impossible with him watching my every move!! I mean, who knows, he might even read this question blog thing!

what are italian men like to date? i've met a nice italian man who is fairly upfront lol not in a bad way i mean confident. But i would like some insight into what they are like in general i'm not giddy in love and have my feet on the ground so thanks.

Italian men & American women , do they click or not? just wondering what is the dating scene like in Italy. do Italian men go for American women or is it a no,no? and a relationship with a foreigner considered a fling or not really?

Help me understand this please. I have dated white men for years.... is this because I was abused by black? men? Growing up I was molested for 4 years by a step grandparent who is African American. I was physically and emotionally abused by my father and grandfather. I married a black man in which I was abused sexually, physically and emotionally. Now my family doesn't understand why I have dated Italian men for the past 8 years. It disgusts me because I am told that I don't have street smarts.... I only know the "white" way! I tried dating black men... but have found them deceitful and liars. Well, the men I have come to know. Although, I've never been abused by a white man, I hear that Italian men are cheaters... and being in love with one now... I have my insecurities due to my past pains. I need your opinion and help with this.

How come some Italian men are hot on fire? (LoL)? I never seen any Italian men here in Knoxville,Tn but I seen them on T.V and shows but they are smokin hot. I wonder do some Italian men enjoy dating black women. I'm not that ugly troll call Terrel ok. He is messing with me! sending me racists e-mials.

interracial dating double standard? are there good looking black men who wont date white women and why is that alot of black men who become successful only date or marry white women even though they only want his money , i never see good looking white women with black men only ugly fat ones and alot of black women date italian men but i never seen a good looking successful italin woman witha black man

Italian men........I need your help please? I have been dating an Italian man who was born and raised in Italy. He follows the Italian culture and is very "old school", he doesn't like anything with real technoligy. He is the most wonderful, caring man I have ever met and I want to get him something he will really treasure for Christmas, something related to his country. Can u please help me with some ideas for a gift he would love. Thanks in advance for your help. :-)

why do i seem to always attract and then date men who were or are dating asians? it's weird. I am a white girl (half italian-half spanish) who for the last 10 men who have asked me out, have noticed that they are with or have predominantly been with Asian women. I don't know what to make of it...

Would an Italian/Meditteranian Man date an Indian (India)-American? See Picture? I ask this because growing up my mother put it in my head that Italian men are gorgeous...she would sing praises about the beauty of the people in the meditteranian region...so I started thinking that too. She kept telling me that I was no different then them (though physically you can see I am 100% Indian) It made me think why won't they except me. I got heartbroken because it seems they only date light/blonde women. Please, I am very open minded, I know how this might sound. I just want to face reality. http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/6606/p9080019xo9.jpg This includes Italian-American or Meditteranian- American ...and yes I have a genuine appreciation for the Italian culture and language. I like myself too, but I love the Italian culture

are most Italian men attracted to balck women.......? not only the famous actor De Niro, but other italian men.Many Italians I know date black women.And another example when Italians colonized Ethiopia, they breed like crazy with Ethiopian women....So are Italian men attracted to black women? well my distant cousin is also married to an Italian......???

Can German or Italian American men date Jewish women? I just started dating a Jewish girl and I really like her. My ethnicity is German and Italian with both sets of grandparent coming from Europe after WWII. My grandfather changed our German last name upon arrival to the US. Although no one in my family had anything to o with WWII my parents say dating a Jewish girl won't work out because of the extreme cultural and social differences Is this true?

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men? Kat, first off I don't broadcast it to women that im disenchanted with how they are, but I am becoming more open and honest and content with who I am and what I want. That is how I operate. And to say if I am blunt with them and tell them how it is (not that i plan to nor would REALLY need to) the reason it would be a turn-off is because.....well, it's the truth. Women don't like being called on for their actions. They expect men to just put up with it if they're giving us some, but contrary to their popular opinion, men ALSO have brains just like they do. THey don't want to be teased, patronized or screwed around on. You catch me?

Dating a woman of the same race that puts down that race? My friend is Jamaican. He's dating a woman that is half African, half Jamaican. She often says to him "i hate the typical black man, but you're different." She also says to him I love Italian men ( she exclusively dated Italian men in her youth) but her family would never approve if she married one ( she tried when she was 19). If a black man approaches her she has nothing but contempt for him and yet when someone approaches her who is Italian-looking she is flattered. My Jamaican friend is offended and she doesn't stop making these comments. She feels that she is black so she is justified in criticizing black men. She has had some bad experiences dating black men. Generally she is very loving to him and she often tells him how much she loves him. Does he have a right to be offended? Does he have the right to question her love? He thinks she is ready to be married, her African family is very traditional and would never accept anyone who wasn't black and he feels settled for.

Do Italian Men date outside their race?

Are Italian men with large penises the best lovers? I am in a dating internet group and an Italian man told the group that he has an eleven inch penis. This aroused me.

why do white/italian guys treat my friend like she is white/italian and expect her not to deal with black men? My friend is black she has never dated a black guy or even had a crush on one she has only dated/been with italian/sicilian/white guys.The white guys are glad she's never been with a black guy or a latino she even lost her you know what to a white guy they tell her she needs to stay with white men and it's okay if she doesn''t like black men which isn't at all the case and they like that she doesn't talk and act in their words"ghetto" she's a suburban girl when she started dating a italian her white guy friend told her to stick with white guys cause we're italians/sicilians are nothing but trouble and we're not white.She is with the italian guy he said he thinks it's okay if she doesn't date black guys or want to and hasn't been with one.He makes fun of latino guys when he finds out one hit on her and she said she thought this filipino guy was hot he had more racist comments then she said she wanted to adopt an african baby he said why would you want to do that what can she do? I meant instead of treating her like a woman they treat her like she is a italian/white women their trying to preserve from a black man when she is black it's almost like their trying to pull her away from her own race she is a human not a trophy or some mindless bimbo who shouldn't date her own race she is beautiful and everything but isn't it wrong for them to treat her like this she now is extremely attracted to nigerian/african men since akon came out she says if her and her boyfriend split she'd date one i find black men and latino men hot but never got to date one

Would Italian Men Date/Marry a Black Women? Because I am a black woman that is very attracted to Italians, but I don't they're attracted to black women, much less marry one. What do you guys think?

What do Italian men find attractive about Black Women? I'm just wondering, Bc people telling me that Italians don't like African-Americans. Would they date black women. Y'all people are crazy! If you won't best answer why are you not answer the questions right. I did not say all Italian men like black women.

where is the best place to find sexy italian men who interacially date? my friend is talking to well everyone calls him her boyfriend this hot italian guy and my other friend who is cuban wanted to know where is the best place to find good looking italian guys who interracially date im sicilian but im engaged and my fiancee is black so i have no answer for her my brothers are the hugest players so i didn't even reccomend them to her and my cousins are no better the men in my family are pretty much dogs

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I act myself, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men? Oh, and one other thing? Don't judge me because im frustrated my love life sucks and I feel like everyone else is succeeding in their own and enjoying life. And don't play therapist and speak to me in a patronizing condescending manner.

What do you think of Italian men ladies? ever dated one? How about the French?

Is it wrong for me to like Italian men more then my own race? I never like black men or never date one, I just don't like them at all. I love non-black men bc I think they are the best for me an I won't to have kids by Italian man bc they are so so hot. I don't wonna have kids by black men bc they gonna teach my kid saying the word N i g g a also not won't to be a father. I just can't find any non-black men here where I from that finds black women attractive. Well people I just don't like black men at all!

What to expect in a relationship with an Italian man? I'm a Filipina. My sister is a graduate student in Europe. She's now dating an Italian. What does she need to know in dealing with him (aside of course from the usual things you can get from magazines!)? Thanks

Are there lots of italian, greek, spanish, portuguese men that date and/or marry black women?

is there an italian community in london im black looking for italian women r they open to dating black men?

Question for italian men? I've started dating this italian guy. He's simply wonderful on all aspects!!! It's the first time I date a white guy and I'm pretty open minded but I'm just scared to start experiencing racial prejudice. I'm African and I was always told italians hated black people. Is that true? I've already met his mom and she's a sweetheart to me. It's just some of his relatives are not too cool with it, but he told them to butt out in my face, which I found admirable. I just get a lot of discouragement from some of my friends, blacks and italians. Even my sister dissaproves. I've already met his mom and she's a sweetheart to me. It's just some of his relatives are not too cool with it, but he told them to butt out in my face, which I found admirable. I just get a lot of discouragement from some of my friends, blacks and italians. Even my sister dissaproves.

dating an italian man? i'm 19 years old, hispanic, peruvian to be exact, and i have never been in a serious relationship. i've been talking to a guy for a couple of months now, he is italian and he wants me to meet his family. i'm nervous because i know that he is really close to his family and i want them to like me. but i'm even more nervous because one of my friends told me that his family may be prejudice. i don't want his family to dislike me. i really like this guy and the last thing i want is to not get along with his family, what should i do?

When dating an Italian man.......? Do the same customs apply as dating an American man? I mean, if he takes you home to mama does that mean you are something special? What are the differences....if there are any. Thanks! lol, Birdy its true....but I when I went to Italy 3 years ago I loved their food also

Is it true that Italian men have a fetish for Black women? I have friends who knew many italian guys that only fetishes over black women or only dates them when it comes to interracial dating. Then I heard that Robert DeNiro (Sp?) only dates black women, and said he doesn't want to date any other type of women, etc. So is this rumor true?

GREEK AND ITalian guys are hated and underrated cause they dating non white women?? ok people we have a debate with a dude who claims that greeks and italians are ugly hairy and he told me that they good only to date black women ! he then said we jealous of american men like brad pitt,mat damon,ben affleck,kanye west! i said back that greek and italian men have win 8 from 16(50%) of MR MANHUT COMPETITION(like miss universe for women but for men) and that many historical male icons were greeks and italians as casanova,valentino ,narcissus etc etc to his claim of american beauty icons like brad pitt mat damon and them i said they ok but they american and since usa has the power they promote them non stop and i claimed there r national celebrities in Greece and italy who look same if not beter than them! well here r some greek and italian celebrities!u be the judges(3 of them date black women ) LADIES U BE THE JUDGES http://www.flickr.com/photos/81357342@N00/844958076/ http://ratlab.files.wordpress.com/2007/01/pic31286.jpg http://www.flickr.com/photos/47741756@N00/354154042/ http://www.poster.net/andre-peter/andre-peter-photo-peter-andre-6232784.jpg http://aurora.ekof.bg.ac.yu/~biljapolic/Nesta/nesta%20111.jpg http://www.tuttogossip.com/images/gossip/S/Stefano-Bettarini-3.jpg http://www.flickr.com/photos/81357342@N00/844250091/ 1,2,3,4 AND 7 GUYS ARE GREEK CELEBRITIES AND 5 AND 6 ITALIANS THIS LH HAS ISSUES WHY YAHOO AINT BAN HER SHE IS SO RACIST LOL bubu man they hate on us man trust me they do i always speak with facts and proofs they talk based in racism and hate;) look matthew and lh(who is an angry black hiddin behind a black girl avatar) look at them lol

Would Italian man date Black women? I have the hots for Italian men, There are sexy to me then white men. I wonder do Some Italian men find black women attractive an What skin shade they like on a black woman to. People please give me a real answer, Italians are not white ok. Thank you

Question about dating an Italian man? Hi there I have met an Italian guy at work who has shown an interest, and asked me out. I went out on this date which was nice but nothing spectacular. He has now asked me out again, and emailed me telling me I am beautiful etc and then text me...All in one day! He also comes to my office everyday to chat... I know plenty would think I am mad to complain but I think its too much. Is this normal for Italian guys? As I would not want to offend or jump to conclusions that he is looking for something serious if this is something they do all the time. I think this guy is sweet and quite funny and do not mind seeing him again but I really do not want him to be contacting me this much after only one date! I do not want something serious. So is this normal (for any guy or an italian guy)? And how do I get him to tone down? Thank you!!!! :-)

Italian men and Blcak men? Do italian men(that you kno) that are gay date black men in ny

Im a black women dating a italian man? I have children that live with me and my boyfriend is a single father of 2 and we all love one another but his family is really trippin. I don't know what to say to my children about how they (his family) are acting and why. I don't want my children to be upset but they are asking a lot of questions on the behavior of his family. What do I say. They just don't want us to be together because of our race. Really what would I say so everything can be smooth but also telling the truth without anyone getting hurt.

are italian men hot or not? i think some are hot and some are not like any other race i am a black chick involved with a italian man i have dated a sicilian guy and find myself overly attracted to italian men i think al pacino was 1 of the hottest men alive when he was younger and i still think frank vincent is so sexy even at his age i cant say if the good in bed myth is right cause i have never slept with either the new guy is locked up and has been for 5 years i been around for a whole year i like him so what do you think are the myths about italian men true?

Are alot of european men dating african women? b/c almost all of my aunties are married to germans, dutch, english, italians, and spainard men. is the dating scene over there alot more better for black women than say the U.S?

Question about Italian men and food? ok so I have a date with this Italian man, from Italy and I am an American born American. Well, this man wants to take me out to eat, but I am sort of nervous about eating in front of him. Can you give me any suggestions on how I can let him know this. Also, does he pay for the date or do we go dutch?

I love my Black men but I do find Hispanic & Italian men sexy as hell? Never dated outside of my race but I am so attractive to beautiful Hispanic and Italian men. Do Italian & Hispanic men find black women desirable?

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Char, Correct me if im wrong, but you mention that I date women who I hardly know nor are friends with. Isn't the point of dating and playing the field to hang out with someone and see if you share mutual interests while trying to get to know one another? Why are you accusing me of going after wrong women when im open to dating all types. I've also been rejected by "all types". The rebel, the nice girl, the sorority girl, and the liberal. I've broadened my horizon and have struck out alot. I've had my moments romantically, but don't feel i've hit my peak in that dept like I arguably should have. Meaning, my best friends and other guys I know have found their right ones. I resort to going online and dating sites to meet women. While I like going to bars, I don't do it to pick up women. I think it's not a good place to meet one anyway. Yeah, im like that. And you're saying women would not be attracted to me? I appreciate some clairity here? Ohio_gurl.....are you bi-polar? Or is this "Curt"? Im not trying to impress anybody. I am being myself. Women like yourself are my problem. You befriend me, then you betray me then you contradict yourself. Seriously, do you have mental issues. It's ok. See, I unlike you, dont TRY to judge people.

This is for ITALIAN men only ...as I have seen this question a few times on yahoo answers...? for reasons of not starting anything racial I find their is a group that says Italian all like them...I personally believe like all men they have different tastes ..so first do you date outside of your culture ..non italian ? secondly what type of women do you prefer?

Tell me about Italian Men? I am considering dating one. What are the pros and cons of Italian men?

why do italian men like irish women?? for some reason italian men are always making sexual comments about irish woman or dating an irish chick why is this????

What do you think of Italian men? I am have been talking to an Italian man. He is nice. His words are amazing. How do I land a real date with him?

why do people think black women are jealous of black men dating white women? im a 20yr old black female and wonder why people always seem to think black women are jealous of black men dating white women there are some that do but alot of us dont care cause there are alot of black men that do not interracially date even though there are alot that do i have never dated a black man i live in a mostly white town went to mostly white schools and that just how it happened am i am tired of black girls saying im half white or im trying to be white im proud to be black but im proud of who i am and how i talk and act it doesnt bother me to see a black man with a non black woman but i have gotten stares and giggles by mostly blacks when im seen with a white guy to the point where i dont even like going to certain parts of town with them and i have had white girls throw themselves at my boyfriends i believe because im black i do not care who dates who i just want people to stay out of my business now im talking to a italian guy

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy whose 5'7 an wears a hat over eyes and has a . Am I missing something? Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men?

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? Th I'll generalize all I want to you fucking mobster. Go to hell. FUGEDDABOUTIT! No for real Angelo. You will apologize for your ignorance or face my wrath. You look like Stan Lee, except that man has class AND a penis.

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I act myself, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men? Oh, and one other thing? Don't judge me because im frustrated my love life sucks and I feel like everyone else is succeeding in their own and enjoying life. And don't play therapist and speak to me in a patronizing condescending manner. Please answer me about my one and done dates. 1) You know they're common right? They don't reflect who I am as a person 2) Was I being humored by those girls? Why did they seem interested, why can't they be honest? Am I too much of a "good guy" to hurt? 3) How do other people deal with it. Also, I come off very intelligent, sociable, friendly and not frustrated on the dates. So tell me how this comes off?

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days? Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring? Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now. Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here? None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something? Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men? TJ, I'd rather eat glass than take advice on my love life from a glorified housewife. A once hot near 40s neophyte does not the most worldy person on Earth make. Im pretty pathetic? Check out your profile hon.....That's WREAKS of insecurity. What grown person refers to themself as a milf? Vain much? Vanity is to insecurity as Peyton Manning is to the national media. Overrated. Your time is up, why don;t you get a sitcom?

Are Mexican Men difficult to DATE & control emotionally? Please tell me how to deal with this situation below. I recently met and have fallen for a SEXY Mexican guy. I thought he was Italian or Puerto Rican. He's very exotic looking. I've never dated a Mexican man before. He's gorgeous. He reminds me of Derek Jeter (baseball player) I'm used to dating Italian, German, or Jewish Men who let me totally control them emotionally & sexually. Anyway, for some reason, he seems to be the boss. He will say I'm calling you this afternoon and it will be that nite. He will say I will come over at 7 and he calls me and is running late dealing with whatever & who knows. Its always something and I hate it but then its like when we are intimate I forget about it all. I hate this. Are Mexican men difficult to deal with dating wise?? Should I break it off with him? I don't like someone controlling me. I want to end it because I need a submissive type. He is really quiet and doesn't talk that much but its how he takes over my whole entire being without saying a word.

I am a Beautiful black woman from Africa, (new in the US) I have had Nice looking Italian American men coming? unto me, I am a little bit on the reserved side and I prefer gentle men , loud wild kinds are a turn off, any one who can tell me what the peculiarities of Italian American men are, are they nice to thier women , what should I expect, All men are nice when they are wooing or courting a woman, its the tomorrow down the line that counts.so please dont give the advice of use your head , because thats a given, I do. I just have never dated outside of my race and If I am going to , I want to make it a pleasant experience.